dear you,
i had wanted to start by writing this: "dear you, i cant believe how alike we are!......"
and marvel at how alike 2 persons of the different genders can be.
but i was stuck at the very next line when i tried to list out our similarities.
i cant pin point the exact characteristics.
maybe we are not tt alike afterall...
or maybe our differences have totally outweighed our similarities.
dear you,
the more i get to know u, the more i shudder at this realisation:
you are the male version of me.
i have nv come across anyone who behaves just like, well, me.
esp the way we approach stuff.
but its not like we have no differences, as men and women go.
u r terribly insensitive and i am over sensitive.
u mix well in grps while i clam up in crowds.
i yabber non stop one-to-one while u tend to keep quiet in pairs.
u are utterly tactless and tend to piss ppl off while i think too much abt other ppl's feelings.
how typical.
and how extreme.
so dear you,
the important question is:
have u ever felt the same way as i do?
ever notice how alike we are?
dear you,
i nv dared to ask u this for fear of complications. misunderstanding.
anyway, i duno wad i wan to prove by asking u this.
wad ans do i expect in reply?
how many ans can there be?
"yes, no, duno, maybe"
knowing u as i do, the ans wld be a "no".
(becos u r so insensitive remember? how on earth wld u notice such itty bitty things? but den i have to say, sometimes i am truely amazed at the things u remember...and yes, now for the other side of the coin, how appalled i am at the things u do not remember.)
birds of a feather flock together?
however, for a thousand and one reasons, we dont.
this is where our differing views in f/ship comes in...
which i shall not elaborate...like anyone cares.
opposites attract?
might as well kill me here and now yah.